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    "Maybe the journey isn't so much about becoming anything. Maybe it's about unbecoming everything that isn't really you so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place."  - Unknown

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    A Broken Frame
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Nov 6, 2017
    • 2 min

    A Broken Frame

    I want to be famous to shuffling men who smile while crossing streets, sticky children in grocery lines, famous as the one who smiled...
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    #soulfight: Everyone Needs a Poet
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Oct 30, 2017
    • 3 min

    #soulfight: Everyone Needs a Poet

    Of this one thing I am quite certain. Every person needs a poet in her life, preferably two or three. Poets take time to love beauty....
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    I Quit
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Oct 23, 2017
    • 4 min

    I Quit

    A few weeks ago, I quit in the middle of a CrossFit workout. “So, you stopped exercising? What’s the big deal?” To outsiders, this does...
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    We All Need Some Home
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Oct 16, 2017
    • 3 min

    We All Need Some Home

    She cried out home. I need me some home. Oh, I need some home. -Johnnyswim, “Home” Do you remember when we were kids and home base was...
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    Let Your Soul Speak
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Oct 9, 2017
    • 5 min

    Let Your Soul Speak

    Overscheduling and trying to do it all disconnect us from our true selves. We bury our inner voice so deep in minutiae and everyday tasks th
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    Malfunctioning Minimalist
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Oct 2, 2017
    • 3 min

    Malfunctioning Minimalist

    And I want to tell her to do more than just believe it, but to enjoy it! That changing your mind is one of the best ways of finding out...
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    My Cheating Heart
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Sep 25, 2017
    • 4 min

    My Cheating Heart

    I have been cheating on my therapist. It has been going on for some time now - nearly a month. Sometimes it happens when I am sitting alone
    127 views0 comments
    Five Year Bling
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Sep 18, 2017
    • 3 min

    Five Year Bling

    Last week, I received my five year pin at work. Think academic flair or bling. It is a tiny pin with the name of the college, a tree and...
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    Life of the Party
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Sep 11, 2017
    • 5 min

    Life of the Party

    I dreaded it for weeks. Calling it a “celebration of life” did not make it seem less like a funeral. I was battling the finality of Mom’s...
    503 views0 comments
    Talk Terri-fic to Me
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Sep 4, 2017
    • 4 min

    Talk Terri-fic to Me

    One of my best friends and favorite people in college was Terri. Her smile and positive attitude were absolutely infectious. Whether we...
    159 views0 comments
    Submarine Living
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Aug 28, 2017
    • 3 min

    Submarine Living

    “These people who have lost someone look naked because they think themselves invisible.” ― Joan Didion, The Year of Magical Thinking I...
    111 views0 comments
    The Right Place at the Right Time
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Aug 21, 2017
    • 4 min

    The Right Place at the Right Time

    And when it's over, it's over. Last week, I told a few of my best friends that I had decided everything was going to be okay. Mom was...
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    I Am Not Afraid
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Aug 14, 2017
    • 4 min

    I Am Not Afraid

    "I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship." -Louisa May Alcott I went on a walk with a close family friend last...
    295 views0 comments
    Weighty Words
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Aug 7, 2017
    • 3 min

    Weighty Words

    I am a writing teacher. Words are the tool of my trade. I help students learn how to transform their thoughts into coherent pieces of...
    107 views0 comments
    Summer of Settling
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jul 31, 2017
    • 5 min

    Summer of Settling

    I decided to pull the emergency brakes and call a halt for the summer. My mind replayed the image of a cartoon where characters use a...
    213 views0 comments
    Mom's Long Journey Home
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jul 24, 2017
    • 3 min

    Mom's Long Journey Home

    “Where is your dad?” My kids were in a trance staring at the television. I just finished cleaning up after feeding everyone dinner. My...
    410 views0 comments
    Textual Wasteland
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jul 17, 2017
    • 4 min

    Textual Wasteland

    I have 401 unread text messages on my phone. I never notice that number. Occasionally, someone will glance at my phone and see it. They...
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    Big Fat Liar
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jul 10, 2017
    • 3 min

    Big Fat Liar

    Last week, we had a scale at our CrossFit gym. We were filling sandbags and needed exact weights. It did not take long for the scale to...
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    The Real Reel
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jul 3, 2017
    • 4 min

    The Real Reel

    I don’t ever speak to my high school friends, rarely converse with my college friends and seldom talk with my New York City or Colorado...
    224 views0 comments
    Time to Saddle Up?
    Jaime Pollard-Smith
    • Jun 26, 2017
    • 4 min

    Time to Saddle Up?

    My dad used to say, “If one person calls you a jackass you can ignore him. If three people call you a jackass, you should find a saddle.”...
    124 views0 comments
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